Much of dealing with the affair is finding a sense of peace in the midst of the craziness. And, from this core of peace, you can act, rather than react. The capacity to act rather than react forms the foundation for successfully dealing with … [Continue reading]
Infidelity: It’s Shock and Knee-Jerk Reactions
February 12, 2009 by Leave a Comment
D-Day, the day of discovery often kicks in the first stage of shock. It's a new world...dramatically different new world. Usually the shock takes one of two directions. A person is frozen, immobilized and wants to pull the covers over … [Continue reading]
Coping with Infidelity and Abuse
February 11, 2009 by Leave a Comment
One of my 7 types of affairs, "I Can't Say No" often points to compulsive rigid patterns of behavior that only get more intense over time. The focal point for the person becomes more and more the object of his/her addiction. It may be another … [Continue reading]