Infidelity and the Determination to Hang On

These thoughts come from a coaching call with a client who doggedly wants to hang on to his spouse and repeatedly tries to forcefully convince her of the errors of her ways. He, like many I coach, are tied to the hip of their spouse/partner. And … [Continue reading]

Extramarital Affair: Their Sex Isn’t Always “Hot”

Yesterday two of my coaching calls were with those who had the extramarital affair. Both of them hugely regret the extramarital affair. Not only that, they explicitly described their sexual relationship. And, their sexual encounters left them … [Continue reading]

6 Reasons NOT to “Work on the Marriage”

Remember, in my last two Newsletters I talked about how "polarized couples" (one wants to 'talk it through' and the other hopes it 'goes away') find their marriage grinding to a halt when they believe they must "work on the relationship?'If you need … [Continue reading]