You discover what you thought you would never discover: your spouse, best friend, fellow parent and bed partner is having an extramarital affair. Are you tongue-tied? Or, do you give tongue-lashings? Those who sign up for one of my coaching … [Continue reading]
Marital Infidelity: Are You the Constant Object?
October 25, 2006 by 25 Comments
One of my coaching clients is playing the role I call the "Constant Object." He is a rock. His mission is to hold the family together. He's focused on parenting - giving what she is not. He vows to hang in there although his family and friends … [Continue reading]
A Cheating Spouse: History Repeats Itself
October 21, 2006 by 31 Comments
I ran into it again today, in one of my coaching calls. This phenomenon may seem odd to most. Most never imagine it to be a possibility. But, for someone who has logged more than 30,000 hours of direct counseling, I've encountered it over and over … [Continue reading]