One can feel trapped, stuck, hitting a brick wall and fearfully paralyzed with trying to cope with and survive infidelity.
Read what some of my readers say about what they tolerate and find difficult to stop putting up with:
>>>being isolated from friends
>>>being ordered to do things at certain times
>>>have no life
>>>Tolerating his openly carrying on the affair in front of me and the children.
>>>His immaturity and bullying when confronted by me is laughed at by him.
>>>He is trying to control everything and expects me to carry on as before. >>>His nasty, aggressive, demeaning and not consistent in what he says.
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>>>Lies, lies and more lies!
>>>always secretly sneaking out of the house to make phone calls or when on computer he would huddle up as if to try and block the screen.
>>>threats of divorce
>>>rage
>>>gossip
>>>lack of sex and intimacy
>>>distrust
>>>Avoidance of the situation, not wanting to bring it up or talk unless I do -then it’s a fight, blaming me for his affair
>>>Excuses to get out of the house and getting home a bit too late but calls first
>>>Knowing he was just with her – instinctively
>>>Hidden cell phone
>>>Him trying to act like nothing is wrong-thinks we can go out together for dinner, movie
>>>Finding daily calls to the other woman every minute he gets
>>>Trying to make obligatory conversation and says he starts 90% of the conversations
>>>Telling me he loves me and doesn’t want to leave or end marriage and >>>everything I say or do that I’ve learned in therapy bothers the hell out of him (calls what I say ‘phsyco babble’)