The Affair – An Opportunity of a Lifetime

Whether you are in an affair, or have learned that your spouse or partner is or was in one, whether you know it or not, you have just been presented with a great gift. How can an affair, with all its confusing and painful attending thoughts and emotions, be a great gift?

An affair is often a trigger, a catalyst, for some of the most meaningful personal growth, change and expansion you will experience in your life because it creates an opportunity for you to look within and ask yourself some important questions. Questions like:

*How did I get here (in whatever role you play in the triangle of the affair)?

*What is it I am really looking for? Is this affair going to get me there? How?

*What is the cost to me of not changing? To those around me?

*Who am I really? What is that motivates me? What is behind my choices?

*Why am I here, right now, in this moment, and beyond this
moment?

*What is that I hold nearest and dearest to my heart, and soul?

*How can I be more of that?

It is through the asking of these deep questions that we discover some of the most profound truths about who we are and why we are showing up in our relationships the way we are. These truths then lead us to a life that has the opportunity for more and more unbounded joy, satisfaction and love. That is something I call a great gift!

If you want to explore some of these questions, and others, contact Jeryl and schedule some personal coaching sessions. She will help you dive into these questions and discover some really cool stuff about you and what you really want! Jeryl specializes in coaching and guiding those of you who want to make deep, personal and lasting changes in your life by asking and finding answers to the questions that touch our innermost being.

Give yourself the great gift contained in the affair and launch yourself into a new life, one rich with adventure, experience and personal enlightenment.

Surviving Infidelity: 8 paths to cope and survive

So, you’ve discovered your partner or spouse is having an affair?

And, if you are like most, you are in pain and find it difficult to function from day to day, hour to hour.

You wonder how you will survive and cope.

You wonder IF you will survive.

Over the years working with many many couples and individuals, I’ve seen patterns and themes. There is a predictable sequence of steps that most go through as they recover from infidelity.

This video outlines those steps and also gives research on the stage or step where most enter the recovery process.

Infidelity Hurt

Need I say more.

Infidelity equals pain and hurt.

Hurt is everywhere, it is a part and parcel of life, exacerbated, however, when we face infidelity.

Here’s a video on hurt that moved me. Allow it to move you…