Sex during Infidelity: Not Always as Great as You Thought

Most of the time, those who have been cheated on imagine that the reason why their partners engage in affairs is because they aren’t satisfied sexually in your relationship, that they get that satisfaction from the other person. This isn’t always true.

There have been a few cases where the persons who were involved in extramarital affairs described their sexual encounters with the other person as nothing to be desired, and said that they hugely regret their infidelity.

One of these cases, in particular, was a male who went through an extramarital affair number six – I need to prove my desirability. He said that he’s always struggled with self-esteem issues. So when a woman who was 15 years younger than him started to give him attention, he was flattered and started feeling good about himself. They flirted for a few months and then “tried” to have sex on a few occasions. He said that it was not good at all, and it only made him feel even more guilty.

So before you think that what you imagined is the truth, talk to your partner, get the facts straight. Sometimes, things aren’t as great as they seem.


  1. Your statements are most true. The woman that was involved with my husband confronted me. Yes she called my home to inform me that she was having an affair with my husband of 33 years. She informed me of all the intimate deatails and she laughed at his performance. She was primarily most interested in him financially. She got him to purchase her a new vehicle, get her bills paid , got her to the beauty shop on a regular basis and she stated that she would not let this financial security go.She was a convenience store clerk and not much to look at. She took him for a ride and broke up our family. Too bad that men are so vulnerable. If only they were as strong emotionally as they are physically. Thank You for all of your support and wisdom that you share with all of us that go through this most horrible experience in life.

  2. My affair was crap. We met three times. I was hot and ready the first two. Massive ED problems, no foreplay, small winkie, and I left feeling used. The third time was so bad I won’t talk about it. But it took 20 minutes for the pain to go away.

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