Internet infidelity is rampant. Many of my coaching clients must deal with this form of infidelity… and it’s a tough one.
One of my online colleagues at www.askmaple.com specializes in this area. She has graciously offered to be a guest blogger.
Here is what she has to say:
There are many factors to determine exactly if you are facing internet infidelity. Ask yourself these questions:
Are you are a committed relationship even though you are not legally married and your partner is chatting on the net to the opposite sex?
Are you married and your spouse is on the net?
Have they purchased a cam for chats on the internet?
Does your spouse communicate with some one of the opposite sex? They may just say they are helping some one with a problem. Yes thats a big problem!
Is your spouse or committed partner talking to old flames or even former schoolmates?
If you have answered yes to any of these questions I want you to seriously know your relationship is at risk. Your spouse or partner will lie, lie and deny any of the contributing factors. They will try to make you believe they are just friends or its your imagination. I’ve seen relationships not address the situation and fall apart given time. Do you know why? You let the situation slide and it becomes more emotional for your partner to break free of the internet infidelity connection.
I urge you to address these issues immediately.
In over a decade working with people in situations like yours I know exactly what you need to know to break through the confusion and paranoia. In the end, a harmless cyber-fling spells double trouble as a spouse may leave a once long term and stable marriage because of someone they just met over the internet. The partner in a new committed relationship may even be posting their photos or profiles on dating or swinging sites. They may tell you its all in the past but is it?
Askmaple.com has much information about infidelity resources. My ebook gives practical, indepth and proven methods used effectively for thousands of victims such as yourself. To deal with the problem of internet infidelity you need to have a total comprehension about the impacts of what is occurring with your partner or spouse. Don’t put this off another indecisive confusing day – be absolutely certain. Don’t be a victim — be a survivor.
For more info, visit my web site today: http://www.askmaple.com
My husband and I have been married 23 years. 9 months ago I found out he’d been having an affair with a woman 27 years his junior. According to him, this woman came on strong to him and made it clear what she wanted. He didn’t waste anytime and started seeing her immediately. Truthfully our marriage has always been rocky due to my husbands financial infidelity and emotional abuse. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a doormat and called him out on everything. Had been planning to divorce him as soon as our youngest child turned 18. Then the affair happened….I was devastated. Why did I feel this way when I already was planning my exit. After a few weeks of raw emotions we reconnected. He told me he wanted to save our marriage, had broke off with the other woman and wanted to go to counseling. We went and it did help for a time. I recently found out he was looking at pictures of her on Facebook everyday many times a day. We went back to counseling. I’m not feeling the love anymore to be quite honest. He’s begging me to stay. Afraid too little too late as they say. Here’s the good part that came from all of this, I lost 25 pounds , exercised and got into the best shape of my life. I feel confident and sexy. I know I can take care of myself. Why should I bow down to this lying, cheating son of a bitch that caused me endless pain? Fuck him! Believe in yourselves ladies! Better to be on your own than with a worthless, untrustworthy, cheating spouse!