The underlying struggle with this question often centers around ambivalence. A part of you wants the marriage, wants the relationship, and fears losing a tremendous amount. And yet there is another part that says, "I am tired of this. I … [Continue reading]
Infidelity Q&A #9: Will I Ever Be Able To Trust Again?
April 12, 2010 by Leave a Comment
One meaning behind this question is, Will I ever trust my cheating spouse again? Will it ever be the same as it was before? And the answer to that is no. It will not be the same as it was before. And there probably always will be a part of … [Continue reading]
Infidelity Q&A #8: How Do I Confront My Spouse?
April 5, 2010 by Leave a Comment
This question occurs when either a person knows or has evidence that the spouse is having an affair but hasn't confronted him or her with it, or the affair is out in the open but you want to be stronger in your stance. I'm going to answer this … [Continue reading]