What Type of Affair Is It?

August 18, 2009 by 4 Comments

You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole.

Trying to influence the direction of an affair with strategies and tactics that are appropriate and designed for another type of affair is worse than futile. You efforts may cause more harm than good.

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  1. nikki says
    August 18, 2009 at 1:21 pm

    I am currently trying to work on my marriage due to an affair that ended 5 months ago. I love my husband and I want my marriage to work. My issue is because her in the military he lives in another state. How do I began trusting him again when we only see eachother on the weekends?

  2. [email protected] says
    August 21, 2009 at 4:07 am

    Dear Dr, I am unsure as to how to work out which type of affair my husband had. We have been married 35 years and he had an affair with a co-worker that went on for two years. I never knew. His affair is now over a year but, he has not ocme home as he “does not know what he wants” He still works with the other woman. I would like to know which type I would associate him with so that I can read up on your material.

    You have been such a great help to me with all your material. You are the most remarkable man I know. Helen

  3. Kelli says
    October 4, 2009 at 9:22 pm

    How do you catagorize the affair when my husband fits partly into two different catagories? There are some characteristis of “I don’t want to say no” and some of “I need to prove my desireability”? Because they are so different in how you are trying to correct the affair/re-build the marriage? I am stuck on this

  4. lorie says
    November 4, 2009 at 8:25 am

    I have been married 2o years and just recently found out my husband has been meeting other men thru craigs list for sex I an devastated and dont know what to do I never dreamed or had a clue I thought their might be another women Help!

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