A significant number of you find the Chat Room extremely helpful. Some groups over the past 5 years have met off line and have established great friendships. Here are some comments about the Chat Room:
1. List 2-3 ways the Chat Room has played a significant part in your “recovery.”
>>>>>great support easy template
>>>>>Just having someone to talk about it with….being able to say whatever u wanted.
>>>>>Everybody is so supportive and outspoken but really do try to be kind. >>>>>Just knowing they were/are there….is just so wonderful…hate to burden other ppl. with my insecurities
>>>>>I’ve just visited it once. But I found the chat fun and supportive.
>>>>>I get great help with questions I can find out if what I am asking of unfaithful spouse is ok
>>>>>It has been helpful to talk to others going through the same thing that I am to know that I am sane. Also to talk to former OP to hear their stories and try to understand the healing that my WH is going through as well.
2. What are a couple pieces of advice you would give a newbie to the Chat Room?
>>>>>do not feel intimidated or unwelcome
>>>>>Try it and enjoy! An invitation for totally open spilling of damned up pain-in-the-gut shock of confusion from a constantly lying and unfaithful husband.
>>>>>visit often ask any question you like even if other people are just talking about the weather
>>>>>Feel free just to read and watch others for awhile. Check back more than once if the first time isn’t helpful. The people on the chat change so frequently that there will be someone at some time that will be a huge support for you.
My husband cheated on me. I kinda forgave him, but I started dating (being unfaithful) a much younger man for a few years. It felt great. After my husband found out about it, he was devastated. I married my young guy..we have 2 great kids and we are happy as we can be. That was 10 year ago..so, you never know…If anyone is considering having an affair, think about it. Not all stories have happy endings..