infidelity chat room

Infidelity Chat Room

The infidelity chat room has been and continues to be a place where those coping with infidelity in their marriage or relationship find crucial support and encouragment.

Sleepless nights are productively spent sometimes using this tool.

I seldom venture in to the chat room. The value of the room is for peers to learn and support each other.

Here are some responses to the my inquiry about the chat room:

1. List 2-3 ways the Chat Room has played a significant part in your “recovery.”

>>>>Being heard. Not alone.

>>>>1. Talking to others helps to put things in perspective. Sadly, someone always has it worse than I do. 2. Speaking to others helps to get my thoughts organized, and after writing something, makes you see your own issues more clearly. 3. The friendships.

>>>>Its a reality check and makes me see how I try to cover for my mate. The discussions make me feel like i am not alone.

>>>>Gave you someone to talk to who was going through the same thing. Others who had gone through it for years were the most helpful. It helped make you feel like you weren’t alone, and going crazy.

>>>>Someone there to talk to Good advice new ideas support from everyone.

>>>>It has helped me find my way after a trying experience.

2. What are a couple pieces of advice you would give a newbie to the Chat Room?

>>>>get it all on the table…valuable info in the wisdom of others

>>>>1. Make sure you tell your story, we’ve heard it all (or so it seems) and there is no shame in this room. 2. If possible, listen to both hurt and offending parties, it helps gain perspective.

>>>>Listen first before jumping in as it helps to see what is being discussed. it also gives the ones chatting time to get to their point.

>>>>Take your time its on your side Read the E books. Set boundaries for spouse.

>>>>Sit and listen. Not everyone’s advice will suit your situation, so to relax, and watch others talk first.

Visit the Infidelity Chat Room

A significant number of you find the Chat Room extremely helpful. Some groups over the past 5 years have met off line and have established great friendships. Here are some comments about the Chat Room:

1. List 2-3 ways the Chat Room has played a significant part in your “recovery.”

>>>>>great support easy template
>>>>>Just having someone to talk about it with….being able to say whatever u wanted.
>>>>>Everybody is so supportive and outspoken but really do try to be kind. >>>>>Just knowing they were/are there….is just so wonderful…hate to burden other ppl. with my insecurities
>>>>>I’ve just visited it once. But I found the chat fun and supportive.
>>>>>I get great help with questions I can find out if what I am asking of unfaithful spouse is ok
>>>>>It has been helpful to talk to others going through the same thing that I am to know that I am sane. Also to talk to former OP to hear their stories and try to understand the healing that my WH is going through as well.

2. What are a couple pieces of advice you would give a newbie to the Chat Room?

>>>>>do not feel intimidated or unwelcome
>>>>>Try it and enjoy! An invitation for totally open spilling of damned up pain-in-the-gut shock of confusion from a constantly lying and unfaithful husband.
>>>>>visit often ask any question you like even if other people are just talking about the weather
>>>>>Feel free just to read and watch others for awhile. Check back more than once if the first time isn’t helpful. The people on the chat change so frequently that there will be someone at some time that will be a huge support for you.