Many find the chat room a place of healing and comfort. If you find it helpful to talk through your concerns, want to feel that you are not alone and are looking for some friends, Please try out the chat room.

Here are some comments by chat room visitors:

1. List 2-3 ways the Chat Room has played a significant part in your “recovery.”

1. I am able to tell people who understand how I feel in a safe,distant, but compforting and friendly place. 2. I found that I have advice too, and helping someone else makes me feel good.

I am the WS and its good to hear BS’s feelings. My BS is also a memeber and we go into chat together, so people can see R is possible. I thank god for the chat room, when I ‘took off’ ,u H had a place to talk to people in the same situation.

reassurance that im not going crazy, other people in my shoes, and suppory in recovering my marriage

I can say exactly what is on my mind. The people know the pain I am going through

gives me a place for a group therapy session gives an outlet with those who have experienced the same level of pain and agony that I am going though provides hope with those who have survived

2. What are a couple pieces of advice you would give a newbie to the Chat Room?

1. Be open and honest. The people in the chat room are friendly and care. They will become your friends if you allow them to. 2. Never be angry or judgmental in the room, everyone in there on either side of the fence is hurting and needs/wants help.

R is a long process, forgivness plays a big part in the recovery. Vent all you want, we’re here to sipport you.

There are people here from both sides, listen and dont be afraid to share even your dark

Speak freely and say exactly how you are feelingthoughts

do not be afraid to tell your story, everyone here is or has walked in your shoes