I’m placing my videos (my first attempts at them) online.
In this video I talk about a very common mistake that most make when they discover the infidelity of their cheating husband or wife.
If you are stunned by the discovery and want to save the marriage or relationship – and most do – try to avoid this common mistake… using the words “I Love You” frequently.
There are solid reasons why NOT to use this strategy.
I was so glad to hear you say not to say “I love you”.
I have not been saying I love you lately, tho he does. Then I say Thank you.
What other words can I say? I am so betrayed, I just don’t feel love so cannot say it.
I said it for a year and he could not.
Now he is saying it and I can’t. He has called her one to many times. I think after a year, I may be done. My body is physically in pain from all the stress and my head in emotional pain. I can’t take any more.
I feel the same way that Cindy does. How do you say I love you? You can’t say it and mean it. There has been too much lying…too much betrayal. I think of him being intimate with her and my skin crawls from his touch. He doesn’t say I love you either. He doesn’t love me. He stares off in space and I know where his mind is. It’s not on me and our family…he is thinking of her. So many horrible memories. So many horrible things were done to me and our family. It’s only reasonable that I feel this way…right?