Studies show that a great percentage of people in relationships or marriages have, at some point, tried being in extramarital affairs. And most likely than not, one or two people close to you are a part of that statistic without you knowing.
There have been plenty of cases where the one involved in an affair did not tell his or her partner about it, and have never been discovered. This should tell you to make yourself aware of any signs that could point to your partner having an affair. The most basic of all is a change in habits and behavioral patterns. You could be sensing that something is “off†or “out of character†with your partner but not be able to say specifically what it is.
Although trust is a very important aspect in any relationship, you should be a little cautious when you notice that something is different with your partner, and be brave enough to confront him or her about it. A change in behavior may not always mean that he or she is having an affair, but there still is that possibility.
Educate yourself and understand that there are different kinds of affairs – why and how they start, what it means to your partner, and how your relationship affected his or her decision to go through with it.
I am amazed how much it does go on. I must have been blinded to it before I experienced it myself but now it’s everyday that someone has discoverd their love one has cheated or is cheating. When I went through it I had only my pastor to guide me through the pain. As time went on I found books, blogs, and websites that helped me to understand my pain and questions. I wish there was more information out there that would prevent people from considering it before it happens.
It does happen a lot & many women walk away. I am hoping my husband will stick around long enough for me to get over the pain and move on WITH him. If not, it is his loss. I am a good woman.
I would like to know if anybody has discovered that they have married somebody who suffers from mental disorders and will always lie and cheat and has always lied and cheated. What a decision to make! Do you think of yourself and leave and move on with your life or do you acknowledge that your partner is mentally ill and will probably never improve and stay to look after him.