Here are some comments from my readers regarding the help and direction they receive in coping with infidelity:

1. How has this E-course helped you change the way you feel, think and act as you face infidelity. Give examples, if you can.

>>>I have learned to back off and concentrate on myself. If I am happy I certainly am more attractive to him. He seems to like the more positive nature I am showing and he is opening up to me and talking anytime i need to.

>>>It tells me what to do and not do.. although it tells me the correct thing, the problem now is to control my heart and emotions… that is not simply done.. my emotions has controlled some things that i shouldn’t have done and i’ve gotten in trouble for..

>>>It does help hearing that others are experiencing similar feelings. Knowing what to expect next lets me know that I am on the right path or at least heading in the right direction.

>>>In my case,my partner’s infidelity began 6 years ago. He has always refused to seek counseling or to even discuss or acknowledge what happened because the other woman is still his girlfriend. I am caring for our four children alone and he has refused to get a divorce, refused to see that there is a problem that needs to be resolved. I found your e-course very helpful in confirming what I learned the hard way over the past six years, that his infidelity had nothing to do with me, that I was mistaken to try to please him while he was cheating behind my back with another woman and thus ‘win’ him back. I believe your course is providing an excellent service without condemning the cheater, who , after all , has lots of problems to face for the rest of his life. The important thing is for the person who has been dumped , and the children who have lost their father’s participation in their lives, to know that they are not less valuable, less lovable because of what happened. But in our small town,we were shunned by some people,who treated it as just another painful marriage break up in which they did not want to take sides. We had to move away and start over.