Do you know who you are?

Do you know who you are who visit my sites, signs up for my E-course and purchases my products?

Well, I’ve met thousands of you over the past 5 online years and over a million have visited my sites.

So I know a little bit about you. Here’s what I know:

1. You are basically healthy people who’ve had some mud slung your way and you are trying to clean it off so you can see clearly and move ahead with integrity.

2. You are healthy because you want to confront this mess of infidelity. You want to learn. You want to know more. You are curious. You want to learn what to say and do differently so you have more options and therefore more personal power.

You want to do your homework, soak in all the new information. That’s why you visit my sites, right?

3. You want to shift away from your pain which may at first be the focal point of your life. You don’t want to wallow. You want to quell the negative thoughts and feelings. YOU are NOT willing to settle for this.

4. You care deeply for others. You feel their pain. You empathize. I hear marvelous stories about the compassion expressed in our chatroom. Do you know that members of the chat room over the years have met face to face in such places as Phoenix, The Quad Cites, Illinois and other places? You want to love others and you are basically not afraid to extend yourself in friendship.

5. You want to contribute. You want to give. You know there is more to life than merely yourself or even your relationship racked with infidelity. You know, at some profound level, that your life has a purpose and you want to find it and live it.

I am blessed with your presence and the opportunity to know all of you at different levels.