On one of my coaching calls the other day a woman confided that her husband was having an "inappropriate" relationship with his therapist. The therapist (a female) was having lunch with him, inviting him to activities, inviting him over to her house … [Continue reading]
Confronting the other Man: Seeing the End of the Marriage
December 2, 2008 by Leave a Comment
When confronting the other man, when is enough enough? 1. What was your purpose for confronting the OP and what did you say/do? My purpose for confronting the other married man my wife was having an affair with was to approach him as a man to … [Continue reading]
Healing after Infidelity: 2 Critical Factors
December 1, 2008 by Leave a Comment
In this case study the person talks about the importance and effectiveness of charging neutral - a skill I coach and teach and vital to coping with infidelity. What helps makes charging neutral effective for her are two critical factors: 1. … [Continue reading]