The Infidelity is NOT Your Fault

Here's a short video in which I talk about a major shift in the healing and recovery process from infidelity. That major shift is refusing to accept fault or blame or any responsibility for the affair. It was his/her choice. … [Continue reading]

Infidelity, a Child and the Comforting Voice Within

Just set up a new page on my Break Free Site. http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com/surviving-infidelity/on-surviving-infidelity-with-child.htm It's a case study of how Nancy not only discovered her husband's affair but also the fact that … [Continue reading]

Tolerating Infidelity: Played like a Violin

The fear of losing it all or other internal factors often keep the wounded spouse hanging on for hope and some sign that the affair will end and sanity will reappear. The cheating spouse often plays into that fear with manipulative efforts that … [Continue reading]