Instinct and Confronting the Other Man

There is a small voice within (sometimes it's more vocal!) that if one listens, holds many of the answers to life's questions. This small voice knows what we need and what we need to do. Sounds easy.. but far from it. This instinctual knowing … [Continue reading]

Setting Boundaries for a Cheating Husband

Setting boundaries and/or declaring one's position is especially important for the "I Don't Want to Say NO" and "I Can't Say No." The boundaries help protect oneself from the blame, criticism, verbal and perhaps physical abuse. But, for the sake … [Continue reading]

Infidelity Discovery: Like a Frog in Boiling Water

Discovering infidelity in one's marriage can be a surreal experience. This readers expresses her journey in coping with infidelity: I have been the frog in water that doesn't realize that the water is boiling until it is too late. I know that … [Continue reading]