What Type of Affair Is It?

You can't fit a square peg into a round hole. Trying to influence the direction of an affair with strategies and tactics that are appropriate and designed for another type of affair is worse than futile. You efforts may cause more harm than good. … [Continue reading]

What If S/he Continues Seeing OP?

What do you do if your spouse, with the affair exposed, continues seeing the other person? Ambivalence often rules. Get tips on how to verbally confront the ambivalence. But, first start with THE question. … [Continue reading]

Will You Trust Again?

In my video series on surviving infidelity I answer the question, "Will I ever trust again?" There are a couple ways of looking at this question. You may be thinking: "will I ever trust my cheating spouse again?" Or, another component: "Will … [Continue reading]