Charging Neutral: Good-by Mrs. Samsonite

When facing infidelity or extramarital affairs, charging neutral is a powerful too. Charging neutral is an oxymoron. How can one CHARGE - more forward forcefully - and still be NEUTRAL. The power of charging neutral lies in that seeming … [Continue reading]

Infidelity Q&A #4: How Do I Get Him/Her to Talk?

The question that I first think about is: What do you want him/her to talk about? And most people, when they discover that their partner is having an affair, need to talk to their cheating partner about the affair. They need to know. There's a … [Continue reading]

Charging Neutral: Beach and Taxes

Charging neutral is a skill I teach that is at the core of presenting self in a way that often generates powerful results. Here are two examples of charging neutral in action: My husband likes to party at the beach with his "friends" who … [Continue reading]