Confronting the OP in an Affair: Watch for set-up

Continuing my research and series on Confronting the Other Person. 1. What was your purpose for confronting the OP and what did you say/do? I was asked to by my partner she thought I would understand the affair better 2. What happened? What … [Continue reading]

Cheating Spouse Wants 9 Months: Give an Ultimatum?

In my last newsletter, I printed an email from Vickie who talked about stating her position in response to her cheating husband saying he was going to stop his philandering in 9 months. I received another email, disagreeing with my response to … [Continue reading]

Confronting the Other Person – can’t stand the pain

Confronting the other person often carries with it powerful images, feelings and emotions. Hear her story: 1. What was your purpose for confronting the OP and what did you say/do? I wanted to meet her, to see what this person looked and acted … [Continue reading]